7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think Win-Win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that is possible to
create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages
the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a
mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t
step on you, but it won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to
succeed as well. Win-Win is abundant. It is belief that there is plenty of
success to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a
matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food
for everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet.
Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most benefit of
thinking Win-win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and
Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win- win will fill your heart with happy and serene
thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win
or no deal.
CHOOSE
THE RIGHT!!!
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